Montag, 18. März 2013

If you love it, let it go...

Relax in the confusion...




Through confusion you gain excess to your emotional self, which is being suppressed most of the times by your mind chattering.
If you are not confused you are not growing.
Having everything under control all the time, is your Ego that has this nice little plan for you, but it´s not what your soul wants...
So if you are thrown into confusion cause someone told you that he/she is not in love with you, or you don´t know what to do with your life, you question your existence, you don´t know if you should do a certain thing about something, whatever it is that confuses you.

Clarity comes out of understanding your confusions and answers come by going deeper into your problems. If you are confused about someone you fall in love with, about your life, about cleaning up your room, actually all confusion there is - and there is a lot!
Go deeper into the confusion and dare to take a deep breathe and relax in it. 
This is life! You are feeling something, finally you let your feelings shine through. It´s human and it´s part of your process of evolving.
Our society nowadays is so mind driven, they are robots! I mean I like Robots, but not the ones that actually have the ability to feel and don´t use it.
So go through this shitty feeling of not knowing, pain, disorientation. Put your favorite music on, put on your favorite clothes to make yourself feel better in that dark, sticky feeling process of relieving. 
Certainly one day or moment it happens: all confusion is gone, all problems disappear, and you are left alone. The beauty of that aloneness is nirvana, is enlightenment. All remains as it is; only now between you and reality there are no more any clouds. 
As you look deeper into your confusion, it starts sorting itself out. It wants to tell you something. The solution is always hidden in the problem, never outside...
Dare to face it, live it, feel it. The problem is simply an indication that the solution is within you and you are not looking for it.
Try to understand it, in that very understanding, confusion disappears.

And never forget to call a friend when the clouds are getting to big! That´s what they are here for. 
Be there for each other in dark times, so together you´ll enjoy the sunshine even more! :)

My Fave song when I´m  confused....
"Oh nothings gonna change my love for you, I wanna spend my life with you..."






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