Love cures everything...
We know that phrase yet we never really feel the deep meaning of it. Which Love?
Love from our parents, from a Lover, friends, love to things, self love?!...Throughout our life we are constantly confronted with situations and people who teach us differently the diverse meanings of Love.
Our parents were the first ones we learned from. If we had a difficult relationship with them or later other people, they just taught us even more by subconsciously teaching us the lesson of self love and self respect. This lesson can take a lifetime to learn.
Until we find our true, deep self love and connection to ourselves, we will be confronted with situations and people in our lives who will give us more and more lessons to improve a true love relationship with ourselves.
To be able to love another person, we first have to understand how to love ourselves. Really feel the deep meaning of that one...
Learn what makes you happy, what nourishes your soul, your body, and what keeps you in a balanced state.
Such a balanced and peaceful state, in which we're neither too sad nor too hysterically happy. Let´s call it inner peace...
From that balanced state, we can share the wonderful feelings arising and we are able to make others feel wonderful, too. Then we can start slowly sharing this precious, gained love with another being. Friend or Lover...
Everything else before that realization between a Boy&Girl, is often emotional dependency and the fear of being alone. Examine your current situation...oopsi! ;p
Sadly many people confound self love with egoism.
Self love is not about trying to always seek for the benefit in everything and everyone for oneself. It´s ok to do something for the good of others withouth gaining something!
Actually, it often makes you really happy and through this, you start loving yourself, too!
Self love is being true to yourself and treating yourself in the best possible way you can, withouth hurting anybody around you. Even better, it includes others in a loving way, as said earlier. Doing good to others improves your self love immensely! Trust me!
So I realized that I´ve lost lots of my self love and self respect somewhere in between my last relationship and the Berghain....
Sometimes getting lost is part of the journey and before the roller coaster can go up again it has to go really far down...
Realization and acceptance is the first step of changing and improving your self love. So I´m on the track now and guess what -
You are never lonely if you truly love the person you are alone with!
Write down 15 things you really appreciate and love about yourself. Every day.
Look at you, at what wonderful things you´ve already accomplished so far, and at what you bring to the people around you.
If you can´t find anything now, then this is the indicator of starting to create more of those things as of now!
Suddenly you won´t feel that you "need" a relationship anymore, cause there is no real loneliness. Going alone to the movies is awesome! :D
You start to decide with awareness, spending your precious time with someone you really feel good with.
Emotional dependency then turns into co-creating, because your emotional happiness
doesn´t depend anylonger on someone else outside of you nor the outer circumstances.
Because you will find that place of Love inside of you, and it´s always burning for you.
Love yourself first....then share! <3
We know that phrase yet we never really feel the deep meaning of it. Which Love?
Love from our parents, from a Lover, friends, love to things, self love?!...Throughout our life we are constantly confronted with situations and people who teach us differently the diverse meanings of Love.
Our parents were the first ones we learned from. If we had a difficult relationship with them or later other people, they just taught us even more by subconsciously teaching us the lesson of self love and self respect. This lesson can take a lifetime to learn.
Until we find our true, deep self love and connection to ourselves, we will be confronted with situations and people in our lives who will give us more and more lessons to improve a true love relationship with ourselves.
To be able to love another person, we first have to understand how to love ourselves. Really feel the deep meaning of that one...
Learn what makes you happy, what nourishes your soul, your body, and what keeps you in a balanced state.
Such a balanced and peaceful state, in which we're neither too sad nor too hysterically happy. Let´s call it inner peace...
From that balanced state, we can share the wonderful feelings arising and we are able to make others feel wonderful, too. Then we can start slowly sharing this precious, gained love with another being. Friend or Lover...
Everything else before that realization between a Boy&Girl, is often emotional dependency and the fear of being alone. Examine your current situation...oopsi! ;p
Sadly many people confound self love with egoism.
Self love is not about trying to always seek for the benefit in everything and everyone for oneself. It´s ok to do something for the good of others withouth gaining something!
Actually, it often makes you really happy and through this, you start loving yourself, too!
Self love is being true to yourself and treating yourself in the best possible way you can, withouth hurting anybody around you. Even better, it includes others in a loving way, as said earlier. Doing good to others improves your self love immensely! Trust me!
So I realized that I´ve lost lots of my self love and self respect somewhere in between my last relationship and the Berghain....
Sometimes getting lost is part of the journey and before the roller coaster can go up again it has to go really far down...
Realization and acceptance is the first step of changing and improving your self love. So I´m on the track now and guess what -
You are never lonely if you truly love the person you are alone with!
Write down 15 things you really appreciate and love about yourself. Every day.
Look at you, at what wonderful things you´ve already accomplished so far, and at what you bring to the people around you.
If you can´t find anything now, then this is the indicator of starting to create more of those things as of now!
Suddenly you won´t feel that you "need" a relationship anymore, cause there is no real loneliness. Going alone to the movies is awesome! :D
You start to decide with awareness, spending your precious time with someone you really feel good with.
Emotional dependency then turns into co-creating, because your emotional happiness
doesn´t depend anylonger on someone else outside of you nor the outer circumstances.
Because you will find that place of Love inside of you, and it´s always burning for you.
Love yourself first....then share! <3
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