Eternal love...

Nothing is ever lost, only transformed

Clothing: Iron Fist

Skull meaning: Transformation, death/new Beginning

When a beloved person dies or a lover is leaving us, friends splitting up with us, people leaving our life's.... we feel that we´ve lost something.

But nothing is ever lost in this universe. 

We´ve gained precious memories, we´ve learned through the other person, we grew with them, through them and shared a moment from our path with them. 

We gave each other something valuable at the time.

Remembering back, they are vivid in our hearts. Memories are as joyful or painful as if the person would be there right next to us.

We speak to each other through our hearts, cause we are all connected through our hearts.

We live in each other all along...

When paths separate in the physical world, don´t be sad. Be grateful for what this person has shared with you. 

Cherish every memory, even the heartbreaks you´ve felt. They just made you learn something and remind you again to love yourself even more. 

I know it´s really hard to accept all this, but if you change the way you look at things, the things you look at, change ;)

Death of the physical body in our western society is something terrible. Symbolizing the end.

In many cultures they celebrate, because they see death as the final liberation from suffering. Because this life existence with all its lessons is suffering itself. 

As the soul never dies, consciousness is never lost, only transformed into none physical matter.

The Soul continues traveling without the body. Lessons learned on earth...Its eternal, never ending. No beginning, no end. No birth, no death.

Physical Death is a great teacher for everybody. It teaches us devotion and how to cherish every second of this wonderful life.

Isn´t this just beautiful!

If a Lover leaves you it´s alright to feel pain. We learn through pain and it makes us more sensitive, but suffering is your choice.

Be grateful for what you could achieve together, learn from each other and for yourself. Appreciate the other person for what they´ve taught you, no matter how much it hurt you.

Remember, it was you who allowed them to treat you like they did...

But it was the time to walk away from what started to hurt yourself.

You will always love each other; in your hearts. For what you have been for another.

It´s eternal, no beginning, no end, you were and always will be in another.

The Love we are thinking that we are loosing by loosing another person, is always within us-It´s in our hearts. 

And in our hearts we all remain connected always.

The dead ones, the lost lovers, the never seen friends. They speak to us through music, memories, feelings, images, sensations. 

We are never left alone if we open our hearts to our own inner source where we all reside.

PS: GO VEGAN!

Equinox

When you change our inner world, your outer world changes accordingly

This is a law of nature. Nowadays society just unlearned to listen and live among these laws.

Thats no esoteric blabla, it´s nature, that´s what we are and Nature underlies the same laws.

Since I´ve changed my inner world from doubting, hoping, trying so hard all the time and moved into a state of Love, Trust, Appreciation, Gratitude, my outer world is changing rapidly.

Of course sometimes I slip back. So I have to meditate a bit more to get in Balance again but that´s normal. Living&helping others in the middle of the storm, requires a lot of strength.

So what happened in the outer world was, I quit my manager, the producers I was working with, my acting agency, I even quit the desire to be a singer& actor...

Only focusing on being happy in the moment. In Love with me and everything there is. Not more, not less.

People might say now" Uh, i´m sorry, seems you´ve lost everything, that sounds terrible!", but thats exactly the thing!

When things fall apart, they actually fall into place!

Surrender in nothingness. 

Be willing to let go of everything you desire. Only then it can unfold. If you hold on to something to strong, you are blocking the energies and it can´t flow easily to you.

What you seek is seeking you.

Just trust and let it go!

That´s when magic happened and new people with wonderful, even greater opportunities came into my life....I´m on a whole different path now then I thought a couple months ago. it´s a wonderful, soulful path.

Did you know that Hilary Swank, who won the Oscar for "Million Dollar Baby", was homeless! She was sleeping on a mattress in an empty building before she got casted for this huge part which changed her life forever!....

This means I must be on my way to become a superstar...;)

So trust that all you ever have to do is, making sure you are happy right now, all the time!

Practice self love through Yoga, Meditation, appreciating the wonderful person you are at every moment. Be grateful for every hard task, every difficulties such as people or situations cause they are only tests to bring you back into alignment of trusting. Knowing. Believing that everything is working out always magnificent. Hard tasks mean you are growing.

Its NOW that matters. Be Joy, be Love, be Peace <3

If you love it, let it go...

Relax in the confusion...

Through confusion you gain excess to your emotional self, which is being suppressed most of the times by your mind chattering.
If you are not confused you are not growing.
Having everything under control all the time, is your Ego that has this nice little plan for you, but it´s not what your soul wants...
So if you are thrown into confusion cause someone told you that he/she is not in love with you, or you don´t know what to do with your life, you question your existence, you don´t know if you should do a certain thing about something, whatever it is that confuses you.

Clarity comes out of understanding your confusions and answers come by going deeper into your problems. If you are confused about someone you fall in love with, about your life, about cleaning up your room, actually all confusion there is - and there is a lot!
Go deeper into the confusion and dare to take a deep breathe and relax in it. 
This is life! You are feeling something, finally you let your feelings shine through. It´s human and it´s part of your process of evolving.
Our society nowadays is so mind driven, they are robots! I mean I like Robots, but not the ones that actually have the ability to feel and don´t use it.
So go through this shitty feeling of not knowing, pain, disorientation. Put your favorite music on, put on your favorite clothes to make yourself feel better in that dark, sticky feeling process of relieving. 
Certainly one day or moment it happens: all confusion is gone, all problems disappear, and you are left alone. The beauty of that aloneness is nirvana, is enlightenment. All remains as it is; only now between you and reality there are no more any clouds. 

As you look deeper into your confusion, it starts sorting itself out. It wants to tell you something. The solution is always hidden in the problem, never outside...

Dare to face it, live it, feel it. The problem is simply an indication that the solution is within you and you are not looking for it.

Try to understand it, in that very understanding, confusion disappears.

And never forget to call a friend when the clouds are getting to big! That´s what they are here for. 

Be there for each other in dark times, so together you´ll enjoy the sunshine even more! :)

My Fave song when I´m  confused....

"Oh nothings gonna change my love for you, I wanna spend my life with you..."

Opening of the heart...

Never stop believing...

Sometimes, walking alone the streets of Berlin, I think  I feel that there´s a certain melancholy inside of me. Then I look at my life in that moment and all the things I´m grateful for, starting with the smallest things I can think of. My flat, my voice, the Sun shining every day, the open hearted people I´ve met so far, Yogaclasses, so many things I´m grateful for that the list just continues.
Then I realize that this so called melancholy is simply, inner Peace....

Many people who are still caught up so much in their inner battle of  "oh, I have to do this but have no time" and "this person makes me feel sad cause he/she behaves like this" or "if that would be better, I finally would be happy", never silent their minds and experience the wonderful things which already are at their presence.
To seek always for something out there to make this life experience "finally better" than it is right now, in this moment, leads to depression, frustration and anxiety.
Every moment can be wonderful, if you decide so. Let it just be the way it is.
I know, the critics among you now shout "yeah whatever Julia, things are like this and that and it´s terrible and I have nothing to do with it".
Actually it would really heal your mind and heart, to accept and realize that everything that is happening to us, is us...
We caused it at some point in the past and now we are just living the results of it. Taking responsibility for ones situation right now, helps you to create a better, more loving, peaceful future for yourself.
If you always blame others or outer circumstances for your situation, you will never get ahead with your life and just block yourself from feeling at peace.
And only by being at peace with yourself, not having inner battles, we can be at ease and step into the flow where things happen effortlessly and easy to us.
Ask yourself where you are having a battle with yourself and the world. Release the need of fixing it.
Let it be. The more you loosen up on it, the easier it´ll fade away. Breathe it out.
We are not here to struggle with another or against ourselves.
We are here to live. In joy, in love, in happiness.
Allow yourself to feel all this by just....being in the moment......
Believe that things always turn out the way they have to. Believing is more truthful then knowing.

I´m a believer, and I believe that everything in my life makes always perfect sense, even if it works out differently then I´ve expected it to be.

This wonderful dress from Irregular Choice brought a wonderful person into my life, which I´ve never expected to be so meaningful to me, even if he´s not here...
Thank you dress ;)
Wish you all a wonderful day everybody,
Make the best out if it - You gotta choose...

Addicted to Love...

Love cures everything...

We know that phrase yet we never really feel the deep meaning of it. Which Love?
Love from our parents, from a Lover, friends, love to things, self love?!...Throughout our life we are constantly confronted with situations and people who teach us differently the diverse meanings of Love.
Our parents were the first ones we learned from. If we had a difficult relationship with them or later other people, they just taught us even more by subconsciously teaching us the lesson of self love and self respect. This lesson can take a lifetime to learn. 
Until we find our true, deep self love and connection to ourselves, we will be confronted with situations and people in our lives who will give us more and more lessons to improve a true love relationship with ourselves.
To be able to love another person, we first have to understand how to love ourselves. Really feel the deep meaning of that one...
Learn what makes you happy, what nourishes your soul, your body, and what keeps you in a balanced state.
Such a balanced and peaceful state, in which we're neither too sad nor too hysterically happy. Let´s call it inner peace...
From that balanced state, we can share the wonderful feelings arising and we are able to make others feel wonderful, too. Then we can start slowly sharing this precious, gained love with another being. Friend or Lover...
Everything else before that realization between a Boy&Girl, is often emotional dependency and the fear of being alone. Examine your current situation...oopsi! ;p
Sadly many people confound self love with egoism.
Self love is not about trying to always seek for the benefit in everything and everyone for oneself. It´s ok to do something for the good of others withouth gaining something! 

Actually, it often makes you really happy and through this, you start loving yourself, too!
Self love is being true to yourself and treating yourself in the best possible way you can, withouth hurting anybody around you. Even better, it includes others in a loving way, as said earlier. Doing good to others improves your self love immensely! Trust me!
So I realized that I´ve lost lots of my self love and self respect somewhere in between my last relationship and the Berghain....
Sometimes getting lost is part of the journey and before the roller coaster can go up again it has to go really far down...
Realization and acceptance is the first step of changing and improving your self love. So I´m on the track now and guess what -
You are never lonely if you truly love the person you are alone with!
Write down 15 things you really appreciate and love about yourself. Every day.
Look at you, at what wonderful things you´ve already accomplished so far, and at what you bring to the people around you.
If you can´t find anything now, then this is the indicator of starting to create more of those things as of now!
Suddenly you won´t feel that you "need" a relationship anymore, cause there is no real loneliness. Going alone to the movies is awesome! :D
You start to decide with awareness, spending your precious time with someone you really feel good with.
Emotional dependency then turns into co-creating, because your emotional happiness 
doesn´t depend anylonger on someone else outside of you nor the outer circumstances.
Because you will find that place of Love inside of you, and it´s always burning for you. 

Love yourself first....then share! <3