When you meet your Soulmate...don't fuck it up

Even If you meet the person you fall in Love with at first sight and feel you want to spend your life together, make huge plans, envision and live the best future, finally feeling as if you have arrived home
even if you know you have met your Soulmate when
Your world shakes up, your heart opens and you are crossing oceans for them

Even then, we are never in control and we do not know why things come to an end ....

soulmates might not be ready, you might not be ready, too much clutter might hold you back to step into your full potential with your Soulmate....

We fall in Love with the feeling of how we feel when we are around the other person.

Romantic Love, flirtatious love is something that keeps us trapped in Illusion....
It´s the fix that people who are trapped in serial monogamy are living.
After the first rush is over, they need a new flirt, the nex fix. It is based on looks, on fame on superficial values.

Yet If this other person is feeling the same, it can be reprocipicated and turned into reality.
If you both recognize you are Soulmates, miracles are possible.
Mayor shifts can happen. In your life. this is the miracle of true healing...
But this needs commitement and courage. Effort and a lot of unconditional Love. Authenticity, Vulnerability and luck I guess. 
The Luck to meet your Soulmate and not fuck it up once they have arrived...

It is the greatest luck to meet the right person. at the right time in the right place.

Soulmates are not the easy love kind of type. It get's rough and uncomfortable because they reflect to us our deepest shadows, our fears, our inadequacy but also our best self.
Soulmates show us our best lifes, the most valued, beautiful version of ourselves and our spirits are lifted to supernatural heights that make us realise everything we ever wanted to do.

Soulmate Love is not for everyone because it involves healing, becoming authentic to the bones, becoming honest with who you are and what you really want.
Because you will recieve it with your Soulmate. with your soulmate you can achieve anything, if you can do the work together....

Only when you are ready to put the guards down, put effort into the relationship, only when you dare to love unconditionally, forgive and allow the deepest healing to take place by sincerely caring for the other person then your wish fullfillments will come true.

Soulmate Love doesn't happen to all of us. Only if you are lucky. 
It is a karmically thing that not all of us are blessed to experience in this lifetime...

And be aware that when it has arrived, you are daring to walk the path in communion and not let it pass you out of pride, fear or whatever silly reason....